I wish I could pick up your attitude -- the whole friend thing is this huge fraught minefield to me. I have a terrible time cutting people unless they do it to me first. And I suck at the filtering thing. So, go you. And OMG, I take everything personally because I'm convinced everyone thinks I suck and that is of course WHY they are taking me off their list, not becuase they have unmanageable life stuff! Believe me, I know how dumb it is.

Anyway, that said, it is nice to see you pop up again and OMG VVC!!!11!!