But I understand what you mean -- and also the feedback that is meant to be praise but is actually a backhanded compliment...For every email I have ever gotten about Closer stating that they never really got it until they saw that vid - I'll get another stating that they enjoyed the vid *despite* the slash or, and I will never ever forget reading this, the girl on the Twop boards who *rec'd* the vid and then stated that she preferred to look at it as merely A/S parallels and did not really see the slash. I guess she missed the entire "fuck you like an animal" thing. And I really tried to get that across - ya know?