It's like Brat told me once when I was getting into this argument with someone over the "just that once" line Spike said to Illyria. This person was all "intimate doesnt mean sex!" and I'm like, MORON andBrat said, "honey. these people will NEVER understand that that line WASN'T PUT IN THERE FOR THEM, it was PUT IN THERE JUST FOR US." And I just thought- yes. Yes that's it exactly. And I stopped emailing with the moron and had some pie.